Class I – 3.1 Intro to the 4 Survival Archetypes
YOUR 8 PERSONAL ARCHETYPES ARE AFFECTED BY THE HEALTH OF THESE 4
CHILD – this archetype exists to hone responsibility in you.
- Prefers the other world. Living in the outdoors away from normal society.
- If your behavior crosses a line and harms other people, thats when you have to deal with your child.
- Responsibility is a fundamental task to the maturing of the soul.
- Balancing responsibility and innocence
PROSTITUTE – Selling your soul because of safety in the physical world
- Power – every single time you come into the next step of empowerment in your life, something will come into your life to find out if you’ll negotiate that.
- Why is “speaking your truth” always about your pain? How about “I’m not listening to those wounds any more”
- My Truth – Nothing is worth trading your health
- High risk; no guarantees! Thats the soul way. Thats the way of destiny.
- Fate is to go with the known. Destiny is to go with uncertainty.
SABOTEUR – Coming into your power and not sabotaging it because it will change your world.
- Example: “you need to exercise” but you don’t do it. Maybe you are just lazy. Recognize that you could have said yes.
- One of the reasons people don’t heal is that their souls don’t have the stamina. They just can’t do what they’ve got to do.
VICTIM – This archetype speaks to boundaries both for others and for your own soul
- Don’t let your soul out on a false mission.
- You cannot have company in your soul.
- You judge people because you are scared for your survival.
Class I – Questions for the 4 Survival Archetypes
EVERY ARCHETYPE HAS A STRATEGY FOR ITS OWN SURVIVAL
3.2 CHILD
My child archetype remembers my childhood as? Adventurous, exploratory, surrounded by nature and animals, communion with the unseen. Climbing trees, forrest houses, being up high, perspective, swimming and being underwater, perspective.
The 3 ways I know my child is taking charge of my behavior? When I am in a power struggle with another person, I know it because…? I feel like I’m being disrespected so I get really nasty. (warrior) I feel like someone is trying to influence or control my decisions so I question myself. (saboteur) I feel overwhelmed so I retreat or escape. (hedonist)
What has your child always always been good at, been born with? Born an artist, a person to act on my feet when everyone is fearful or confused, a natural leader, compassionate, a wanderer.
- What was your child born already knowing about this life? We are no walking alone in this world.
Name 3 people your child loves and 3 people it can’t stand.
- The child that keeps you frightened about being who you are is the child who has to keep you in your wounds.
3.3 VICTIM
When I see the world as my victim my biggest problems seem to be? Lack of power needed to change the situation.
When I feel victimized its because these things happened to me… Someone deliberately ignored what I said and something bad happened. Someone abused their authority over me. Someone manipulated me in order to take me down.
I know when my victim is talking to me because it’s familiar. It tells me this… Lash out and be aggressive because someone is taking from you on a grand scale and the results will be permanent.
These are the telltale signs I’m around another persons victim…
Two ways I know I can victimize others… Being cold and aloof, making people feel less than. Being the aggressor.
My lifelong lesson with the victim archetype… Bad romantic relationships, giving the man power over me.
3.4 SABOTEUR
- You sabotaging the matter of personal Truth.
- If you are fighting the revelation of Truth, you will make up a myth to ignore your intuition.
- The mystic says to God “It is so painful getting to know you”
- When you are at a level of a mystic and you see things so clearly, but you are walking with others who don’t see clearly, in order to balance that, your soul has to have great stamina. This is where the pain lies. It lies in the gap between yourself and others.
When you think about how you sabotage yourself what is the first thing that occurs to you? Self doubt, handing over my power.
Identify systems in your life that would change if you became a more empowered individual… Separation from friends and family. Angering the ones left behind. Alienation. Loss of material things. What I’ve worked for will become unimportant. I’d live in fear of God because more would come my way…
What opportunities have you sabotaged hat you regret? What held you back? Being a first responder, being a hospice caregiver, finish my degree, being a child psychologist.
What excusers to you tell yourself in order to explain? I don’t have the time, too busy taking care of others.
How do you play dirty? What are your techniques? Being aggressive and creating fear. Hire a lawyer. Become physically violent. Alienate. Judge. Remove myself.
What are you presently sabotaging in your life and why? My relationship with my son. I’m scared about losing my sanity, and losing my faith in humanity. Method- withholding love.
What is the truth that is emerging that you don’t want to face? You must stop judging.
3.5 PROSTITUTE
Have you sold yourself out? When and how often? Oxford, shrank myself. Varnum, gave power to authority. Crowe, gave a second chance. Kenny, sailing adventure. Don, caregiver.
What are the worst things that can happen to you? Living off the system. Loss of self in a relationship. My back gives out again. Lose my house in some way. Addiction
How important is financial security or stuff in regard to your life’s purpose?
Does your spirituality have to have a practical outcome?
Did you ever knowingly not follow guidance due to financial concerns? The golden chain.